The Hidden Kitchen Philosophy in ‘Fight Club’: The IKEA Nesting Instinct
When was the last time you bought a kitchen gadget because you needed it? Not because it looked cool, not because some magazine told you to, but because you truly couldn’t cook dinner without it?
In the cult classic Fight Club, directed by David Fincher and released in 1999, the main character is fighting neither man nor beast at the start of the story. He is fighting his furniture. There is a well-known monologue in which the Narrator is flipping through an interior design catalog and speaking lovingly of his furniture, as one might speak of his lover. He refers to it as the “IKEA Nesting Instinct.”
This idea strikes a chord for anyone who loves design. It means that our fixation with the relentless search for the ultimate coffee cup, the ultimate table, it’s not a matter of taste. It’s a matter of trapping ourselves.
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The Catalog as Identity
The Narrator then poses a frightening question: “What kind of dining set defines me as a person?”
This is the heart of the criticism in this movie of family life. It is our perception that, by acquiring a hand-blown green glass bowl with small air bubbles and nicks, we will be interesting. It is our perception that, by owning a particular brand of stand mixer, we will appear to be competent, caring, and successful.
Fight Club contends that this is only a lie. The Nesting Instinct is simply the desire for a safe place. It’s been hijacked by consumer culture. We find ourselves filling our kitchens with objects not to use, but to project the shell of our personalities.
Blowing Up the Perfect Kitchen
The turning point of the film comes into place when the condo of the Narrator blows up. His “Yin and Yang” coffee table and his perfect refrigerator get destroyed instantly.
It is a nightmare for foodies or design aficionados. But for the characters in Fight Club, it is liberation. Tyler Durden, the anarchistic version of the protagonist, spreads the message about how “The Things You Own End Up Owning You.” Without the perfect kitchen, the Narrator must live in a rundown house on Paper Street.
The kitchen at this point is no longer just revolting. It has the functionality, the rawness, of survival. There’s no talk of color schemes or material texture. There’s just action and survival.
You Are Not Your Coffee Maker
The philosophy here isn’t that we should all live in squalor. It’s a reminder to separate the tool from the self. It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that one cannot be a good cook without a $300 knife, that one cannot hold a dinner party without the corresponding china.
Fight Club awakens us to the fact that these are mere things. Therefore, go and purchase the nice table. Enjoy your well-designed chair. Just remember the moral behind the IKEA Nesting Instinct. The table is meant for your food. Not for your soul.
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